Aug 05, 2026

Stop Asking Why: What parenting teaches us about leading designers

Jordan Gosselin

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Description

Most leadership advice focuses on process—frameworks, feedback models and ways of working. But in practice, the hardest part of leading a design team isn’t the work, it’s the people. It turns out, there’s another place where you learn to handle resistance, give clear direction and navigate emotional reactions in real time: parenting. In this talk, Jordan explores the unexpected overlap between raising kids and leading creative teams. Through practical, real-world examples, he shares simple but powerful shifts—like asking better questions, separating behaviour from identity and setting boundaries that actually make better work possible. This isn’t about treating your team like children. It’s about recognizing that the same human dynamics show up in both environments and learning how to respond to them more effectively.

You’ll leave with:

• Practical language shifts that reduce defensiveness and improve collaboration

• Clear ways to give feedback without damaging confidence

• Techniques for setting boundaries that increase trust and creative output

• Tools you can apply immediately in critiques, 1:1s and other conversations

Jordan Gosselin

With over 18 years of experience working across brand, campaign and in-house design environments, Jordan has spent the majority of his career embedded within large organizations. At Canada Life, Jordan leads a team of designers responsible for brand-critical content across digital, social and internal communications. His work sits at the intersection of creative execution and leadership—balancing strategic intent, stakeholder needs and the realities of in-house constraints. Jordan’s design philosophy is rooted in character, not style. He believes effective design leadership requires emotional intelligence, consistency and the ability to show up as a human first—especially within corporate systems that can unintentionally flatten creativity.